How to socially relevant with a Girl For The First Time

What is important is knowing what NOT to say. And, after this initial approach, it is all about knowing how to respond to her replies in a way which builds ups attraction.
Major problem guys have these days when approaching women is come off as creepy. This is because most guys aren’t aware of the rule of “social relevance.” This basically just means you’ve got to be aware of your situation and make conversation which is relevant to the place.

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For example:
You see a sexy girl in a night club wearing a little blue dress. You approach and say, “I just had to tell you how much I love that dress on you!” The girl is flattered, she knows exactly why you are approaching  her and (assuming  you approached  with confidence), she will probably be open for conversation.

Being socially relevant can also spare you the pain of coming  of as boring.


See few steps to know how to socially relevant to a girl you met for first time:

1.Avoiding The Boring Factor
When talking to a girl for the first  time, one of  the worst things you can do is boring her. First of all, if you are boring, she will have absolutely no interest in getting to know you further. Second of all, if you respond with the exact same things that she has heard a zillion times before,she will assume that you are like every other guy she has met before. And you don’t want to be lumped into that pool!

2.Don’t Be Afraid To Move Into More Exciting Lines Of

For example,
 Guy: How long have you lived in the hostel?
Girl: Yes. Since 100l
Guy: (Laughing) You don’t sound too happy about that! Why, is there somewhere else you’d rather live?
This broad question opens up all sorts of conversational possibilities. She might tell you about how she has always dreamed about living out school campus.

3. Stop Interrogating

For example,
 Imagine how interrogating a conversation this would be:
Guy: Where you from?
Girl: ilorin. You?
Guy: I’m from lagos. Did your parent lives in Ilorin too?
Girl: Yes.
Guy: You stay in which side in ilorin?
Girl: offa garage.

To avoid the risk of your openingquestion turning into an interrogation, you need to ask broad questions. By “broad questions”, I mean questions which cannot easily be answered with yes/no or a single word.
4. Keeping The Conversation Moving

Now,you’ve got to keep the conversation going. There are some tricks which are sure to keep any  conversation moving  forward in a way which is comfortable for the both of you.

Now that you know what to say to a girl when you approach her for the first time, go out there and put the knowledge to use! Practice makes perfect . and you will have a lot of fun practicing this line of knowledge!. Kwara state University Malete, A university rated among the best University in Nigeria. Many students begin their college quest with hopes and dreams of earning a degree and improving their situation at home, at work or life in general. Often, after students begin their college experience they are faced with obstacles and challenges that can seem insurmountable.

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